Showing posts with label books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label books. Show all posts

7 January 2009

An assembly of thoughts

Neil Gaiman's Sandman has been a fascinating read thus far. The books I borrowed (and am borrowing) are a courtesy of my colleague, Xue Mei. I'm up to Book 5 and the assortment of plots and ideas continue to intrigue. Gaiman's work can be succinctly and appropriately summed up by a sentence written in one of the prefaces.
The Sandman, under the writerly direction of Gaiman, does its work delicately, proving in areas where, often, we might not even have suspected anything mythical lay. It explores always with an ironic cast to the lips. The eyes are narrowed. The approach is always skewed. Again and again, what it discovers shocks, chills, and catches at the heart.
Yup, that does a pretty good summation of the guy's work. He weaves his stories with socially-radical themes that challenge the reader to explore certain ideas he may have, and he often introduces issues which lie beneath the surface of our subconscious, awakening in us questions that used to be buried in oblivion.

I found a tidbit to chew on from the preface that resonates with a few strands of thoughts. Perhaps you may find it interesting as well.
We're talking about something deeper, that allows individuals to exist; we're talking about the hidden, shifting undersea reefs on which every individual stands - rocks that so rarely show clear above the tides of illusion and desire. That's the support we mean, and it always begins in something outside the self.
Nice (:

Anyway, work has become interesting of late. I have been involved in designing a Flash animation for the inaugural establishment of the Connexion.sg website, hence I have been trying to recall my rusty skills. To my pleasant surprise, I find that most of the techniques that I know of in the past can still be recalled :D As much as it is exciting, it is also extremely tiring and tedious. Most people probably do not recognize that for every completed piece of work/art lies a boulevard of broken drafts! haha that's probably why I got tired of web- and graphic-designing a while ago.

It's been a totally different experience though, and the main difference lies in the approval. I used to be the creater, editor, critique and approver of the projects, hence I usually do not have to be subjected to so much red tape and regulation as compared to now, where I have to seek the approval of the higher authorities. The flip side to it is that it provides a greater challenge, and does make me more open to different approaches. I think demands do that to you - they squeeze you dry, milk out new ideas, and push you to your limit, sometimes beyond it too. It's nice, in a way, to learn of diverging perspectives.

Sometimes, I find that we like to hole ourselves in those self-engineered sandcastles, burying our awareness under the cascading towers that often mask our obstinance as persistence. It is only when someone probs this supposed stronghold that the foundation of sediment begins to loosen, allowing our constructed illusion to fall apart and unveil the spectre of weakness and rigidness that were concealed, either subconsciously or consciously. We got to let the veneer of apparent competence be tested to know how far more we can reach, and find out how high up the new standards are.

Finally, here's a random thought:
Love doesn't preclude a relationship. It is but a consequence of it.

An assembly of toys.

2 December 2008

No Second Chance

Grief, when spotted, can be, if not handled, somewhat manipulated, finessed, concealed. But grief likes to hide behind bushes. It enjoys leaping out of nowhere, startling you, mocking you, stripping away your pretence of normalcy. Grief lulls you to sleep, thus making the blindside hit all the more jarring... Like grief, hope hides and pounces and taunts and never leaves. I am not sure which of the two the crueller mistress is.

Source: No Second Chance by Harlan Coben
Nice, the author writes quite well, and spins the tale expertly, with a few sections that tease your mind with intriguing questions. Conclusion was just slightly cranky where there was some unanswered questions. Still, it's a good read.

26 September 2008

Helpless

I was just telling Funx how surreal today felt. It didn't feel like a school day. Or perhaps it's because we've been so long away from school that it feels different. Or maybe it's because the feeling of just having woke up from a 3h nap is still lingering haha xD

You know, there's a limit to what you can do for others. When you see someone feeling sad and down, there's only so much encouragements can do for them. Ultimately, it is up to him or her to either accept things as it is and move on, or take some time to chew over it before letting go.

For myself, I'm more or less acquainted with the results that I've gotten back. haha so far it's B.A.D, ya so it's not that good, nor is it very bad.

Anyway, I've always thought that the best thing to take one's mind off matters is to read, because reading teleports you to a parallel universe where you can assume roles of fictitious characters and lead a temporary unreal life, a life characterized by adventure, romance, excitement and whatnots. So here are some nice quotes from random books that I've collected at some point or another in my life (:

The Myth of Tomorrow, Gary Buffone, Ph.D.
There is a danger of being overly sentimental about the relation of love and death. It is too easy to glibly mention love as the solution to all of life’s problems. Yet love is a solution, albeit an imperfect antidote.

Life’s much too short to toil under the heavy yoke of perfectionism. Know and accept your true feelings and needs and let go the pressure of living up to others’ expectations of you and your life.

Dichotomous thinking – the “all or nothing” perceptual style where everything you see is good-bad, right-wrong, or black-white. You are either wonderful or worthless, brilliant or stupid, beautiful or ugly, great or awful. If you think in polarities, look for shades of gray. People are too complex to be simply categorized and labelled. We each fall somewhere along a continuum and deserve more understanding.

The Language of God by Francis S. Collins
Would you condemn an oak tree because its timbers had been used to build battering rams? Would you blame the air for allowing lies to be transmitted through it? Would you judge Mozart's The Magic Flute on the basis of a poorly rehearsed performance by fifth-graders? If you had never seen a real sunset over the Pacific, would you allow a tourist brochure as a substitute? Would you evaluate the power of romantic love solely in the light of an abusive marriage next door?

Perfect Love – Imperfect Relationships by John Welwood
At bottom, most of the things we strive for – security, success, wealth, status, power, recognition, validation, praise – are ways of trying to fill a gaping hole within us, a hole formed out of our separation from love. As ways of trying to win love indirectly, these substitute gratifications do not truly nourish us, because they do not deliver the real thing. In that sense, they are like junk food. Their failure to truly nourish only intensifies our inner hunger, driving us to run all the harder on the hamster wheel of success, desperate hoping to win some reward that will truly satisfy.

To love is to cast light. To be loved means to be ablaze. How else can we cast pure light if we are not set ablaze ourselves?

Similarly, just as the sky can hold clouds but clouds cannot hold the vast expanse of the sky, so love is greater than hatred because it can embrace hatred while hatred cannot embrace love. While love can exist freely of hatred, hatred exists only because of love, as a painful symptom of our disconnection from it.

Just looking at this collection makes me want to start reading again! haha Jiening told me about this book by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett called Good Omens so I thought I'd just borrow it, and while it's a funny book, it's not really a satisfying read. The emo-momo one that Lynette is reading seems quite nice judging from the few lines she quoted from the book.

Hmmm... The unexpected and unprecendented (my first!) A for GP, a good long lunch and a good long nap sums up a pretty good day, so I'm feeling happy and ready to kickstart my mugging regime with the Coks again tomorrow! Oh, Tiddy and I will be sending off Kay Hwee tomorrow (: