Romantic love can spring from infatuation and sexual attraction alone, but the deepest love between partners depends on shared emotional resonance over features of life they both consider most significant. The irony of this loving relationship--commonly identified as friendship--is that the two persons often find their common value while searching for value itself; they discover themselves in a meeting of minds engaged in the same quest.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-20011101-000002.html

what to do for valentine's? haha i am torn between not doing anything to doing a lot of things. sigh, what ambivalent feelings.

raj wants to mass spam something like last year. hmmm maybe should think of something this year too. but oh well...

ihc cybergaming! haha oh man there is a pressure to defend the dota title. rold and gang whole day say bb can win, but a lot depends on the draws too - for all we know, we could be playing the mr/bw j2 teams for first round? that would be certainly challenging, seeing how they are purportedly the strongest teams for the competition, with generally experienced players.

but certainly, a high amount of unpredictability and uncertainty is intrinsic in the game, and all it takes is a few mistakes to unravel the tapestry of the team, spiralling into a quagmire that will eventually lead to the team's demise. haha but then again, luck is preparation meeting fortune, so i just hope my team is well-prepared.

and we're meeting the grassroots on monday! haha i'm actually quite excited at meeting them =) this year's structure for grassroots is more formalized and improved, and i really hope bb's grassroots will take off well. and welfare comm rawks! so glad there are so many sign-ups for welfare =D thinking about the many projects under welfare already got me feeling excited for them! haha

mmm cny goodies are nice. esp pineapple tarts =)